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It all begins in infancy when a child hears voices. A parent needs to
do a lot of talking to a child. The talking will lead to reading, which
can be done as early as six months old. As children hear words and sounds,
they begin to try and emulate what they are hearing. Their responses
include cooing, giggling, and eventually actual words. Out of the many
things that can be done, here are a few that a parent can do: frequent
talking, frequent reading, singing, smiling, and gestures. It is very
important that there is eye contact between the parent and child so that
the child learns to listen and focus. Listening is one of the four
components of language development which also includes speaking, reading,
and writing.
As the talking leads to reading, the selections should be chosen
carefully based on simplicity, size, attractiveness, and interest. Reading
aloud to a child should be done several times a day for short periods of
time and should become increasingly longer as the child becomes older. The
real key is being consistent with the routine and praising the child
throughout the entire process. Building a child’s confidence and
self-esteem is a by-product that will spill over into other facets of
life.
It has been acknowledged that a parent does not have be an expert in
reading to read with his or her child. In fact, a parent does not even
have to be a good reader to help the child. The following basic things
should occur during a reading session: choose a book the child likes; find
a comfortable, quiet place to read; explore the book by looking at the
cover, title page, and pictures; read and stop to discuss the story
frequently; help the child see the connection between words and pictures;
and encourage questions and comments from the child. There are many
materials available that can assist parents in some basic techniques.
Parents need to make books a special thing in the home, like a
collection. They can be kept in a special place created to showcase the
reading materials. Children will value books and respect them if a parent
demonstrates that same care and value of them. Parents can also model
being avid readers and life-long learners. Children need that modeling
very early in life.
In choosing books, they need to be appropriate age level for the child.
If a book is eye catching and is motivating, a child will read it again
and again. Books that utilize repetition and rhyming are always very
popular with children. Books that are filled with pictures, are ideal for
reading sessions because the child will be receptive to more discussion
and comment by looking at the pictures.
Where will you find the time to do the reading session with your child?
Start with the television. Shave enough time from TV viewing to work on
the reading activities with your child. In addition, use the television
time to tie into language development. Parents need to take charge of the
TV time and the selection of programs to be viewed. Choose programs that
meet the following criteria: captures the child’s interest; encourages
listening and questioning; helps the child learn new words; helps the
child’s self-esteem; and can be connected to real life.
There are many stages of language development that can be addressed by
parents. A parent should be involved in all components. There are many
materials and handbooks available from which parents can learn the basics
and can learn some specific activities to use with children. Children need
a jump start in reading, and parents can make that happen.
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About the Author
Barbara Snyder M.A. Ed. is a retired California Distinguished School
Principal and Coordinator For Human Resources. She has a master’s degree
in Curriculum and Instruction. She holds elementary education, secondary,
community college, and administrative credentials. She is currently the
co-publisher of Strictly Business Magazine at http://www.sbmag.org/,
publisher of http://educationresourcesnetwork.com/, and Student Teacher
Supervisor at Chapman University College.
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